The Instant Fix

 During my time as a believer, one of the initial factors that prompted me to question my faith was the apparent lack of transformation among Christians. The doctrine emphasizes that by accepting Jesus, one will experience a profound change, have their sins erased, and become a different person. This approach is not conducive to healthy coping mechanisms and can ultimately undermine mental well-being. Any licensed therapist would affirm that healing is a gradual process.

Throughout our lives, we have internalized negative behaviors and coping strategies, and it takes time to unlearn these patterns. Simply reciting a prayer does not resolve deep-seated issues, particularly in the context of addiction. This situation often leads individuals who struggle to overcome their challenges to doubt their commitment to God. When they seek guidance, they are frequently advised to read the Bible more or to pray. While it may be suggested that they consult a pastor for counseling, it is important to recognize that pastors are not typically equipped to address mental health concerns. This approach does not foster genuine change; rather, it can diminish a person's sense of self-worth. The issue lies not in their lack of true salvation, but in the misleading notion that turning to a higher power will automatically result in transformation.

As human beings, we often seek immediate solutions and are quick to embrace any opportunity for instant results, yet such outcomes are rarely immediate or even beneficial. Achieving positive change requires time, a reality that can be difficult to accept. The only effective way to address personal issues is to reach a point of resolution and seek the assistance of a qualified professional—someone who has undergone training and possesses the expertise to navigate the challenges one faces.

As an atheist, I do not assert that all religions are detrimental. My upbringing in deeply evangelical churches in the south exposed me to a culture that prioritizes rapid transformation, often resembling a sales pitch. The sermon on Sunday may focus on the theme of love; however, it is intertwined with elements of hatred and falsehoods. An "us versus them" mentality contributes to the ongoing issues within our communities. The concept of being saved implies that one was in need of salvation from something initially. While we all face challenges, these are not solely attributable to sin. If one posits that an individual struggling with drug addiction is a sinner in need of salvation, and that this salvation will lead to their immediate recovery, such a perspective overlooks the underlying issues. Many individuals grappling with addiction are often dealing with profound pain and trauma, which require genuine effort to address; a mere prayer will not provide an instant resolution.

Currently, there is a troubling situation in my town involving a local pastor who is evading law enforcement due to outstanding warrants for two counts of rape. The notion that an innocent person would flee is worth noting, but the crux of the matter lies elsewhere. His wife claims he has undergone a transformation, asserting that he is now a different man since he is now saved and engaged in various charitable acts. However, true change would be reflected in his willingness to surrender to authorities. This situation raises a disturbing implication: if one can commit heinous acts, such as murder, and believe that a simple prayer absolves them, it undermines the gravity of their actions. Accountability under the law is essential. We have all encountered stories of individuals who, while incarcerated, profess to have found God and subsequently believe they are assured a place in heaven. While it is true that they are serving their sentences, the idea that they can suddenly possess a "get out of hell free" card is deeply troubling.

This, among various other factors, led me to reevaluate my beliefs and explore the psychological aspects surrounding them. There exists a universal desire for something that can fulfill us and assist us on our journey. None of us wish to navigate life in solitude, and certain ideologies present themselves as solutions to this dilemma. They exploit the essence of our being, preparing us to suppress our emotions by simply adhering to scripture and prayers. However, this approach does not address our fundamental issues; rather, it exacerbates them.

My contention is that such beliefs can be more detrimental than beneficial. If you truly care for others, embracing them as they are and striving to improve the world through your own compassion, this message is not for you; it is intended for those who do not share this perspective.